Factores individuales, familiares y sociales que contribuyen en la estabilidad e inestabilidad en la relación de pareja como aspectos relevantes en la construcción familia.

Abstract

La relación de pareja puede ser definida como la unión entre un hombre y una mujer con el propósito de formar una familia y crecer progresivamente juntos. El presente estudio, centra su atención en el tema de la estabilidad e inestabilidad en la relación de 7 parejas del municipio de Girón, a partir de la co-construcción de significados en relación al tema, que incluyen la identificación de los factores individuales, familiares y sociales, para finalmente co-construir estrategias que favorezcan la estabilidad al interior de dichas parejas. Se utilizó la técnica del taller reflexivo que permite la participación de los asistentes generando un espacio de construcción respecto a un tema en especial, en este caso relaciones de pareja . Los resultados permitieron definir la estabilidad en la relación de pareja como la armonía entre los cónyuges, mientras que la inestabilidad como la presencia de caos en la misma. Se identificaron los factores individuales, familiares y sociales que generaban estabilidad e inestabilidad en la relación de pareja. Finalmente, se establecen algunas estrategias para el fortalecimiento de la relación estable de pareja y se realizan algunas conclusiones sobre el estudio, reconociendo la importancia del trabajo con parejas como pilar fundamental en la construcción de familia, que faciliten espacios de co-construcción de reflexiones sobre sus creencias e ideas acerca de la misma. The relationship can be defined as a union between a man and a woman for the purpose of starting a family and grow progressively together. This study focuses on the issue of stability and instability in the ratio of 7 couples from the municipality of Girón, starting with the coconstruction of the meaning on the issue, including the identification of the individual, family and social, to finally cobuild strategies that promote stability within these couples. Reflective workshop techniques were used. This allows the involvement of participants creating a space for construction about a particular topic, in this case relationships were used. The results allowed to define stability in the relationship and harmony between spouses, while the instability as the presence of chaos in it. There were some generating stable individual factors identified as: organization, expression of affection and good humor; while pride, mistrust and bad moods were identified as sources of instability. Family factors considered as contributing to the stability of the couple were: support, communication and respect for the decisions of the couple; while meddling in decisions, indifference and differences in parenting styles, were considered as aspects that provoke instability. Social factors such as the support of the Christian church and good relations with neighbors is considered that can contribute to the stability in their relations, while the economic situation, unemployment and conflicts with neighbors are considered generators of instability. Finally, some strategies for strengthening stable relationship and establishing some conclusions about the study was conducted, recognizing the importance of working with partners as a fundamental pillar in the construction of family spaces that facilitate coconstruction of reflections on their beliefs and ideas about it.